BartBonz
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I need to share this for anyone who needs to hear it: It's okay to say no. 
When I started freelance writing, I said yes to everything. Yes to $10 articles. Yes to unrealistic deadlines. Yes to clients who emailed me at 11 PM. I was so scared that if I said no, the work would dry up and I'd be broke forever.
Guess what happened? I made money, sure. But I was exhausted, resentful, and my grades started slipping. I was writing 15 hours a week on top of classes, and I hated every second of it. Freelance writing had become a nightmare instead of an opportunity.
Then I hit a wall. I couldn't do it anymore. I actually cried when I saw another client email.
So I made changes. I raised my rates (which meant fewer clients but same income). I set clear boundaries (no responses after 7 PM). I started saying no to projects that didn't excite me. And you know what? The world didn't end. Clients actually respected me more.
Now freelance writing is enjoyable again. I have time for friends, for studying, for sleep. If you're feeling overwhelmed, please give yourself permission to pull back. You're a student first. The work will still be there when you're ready.
Anyone else struggle with boundaries in freelance writing? How do you protect your time?
When I started freelance writing, I said yes to everything. Yes to $10 articles. Yes to unrealistic deadlines. Yes to clients who emailed me at 11 PM. I was so scared that if I said no, the work would dry up and I'd be broke forever.
Guess what happened? I made money, sure. But I was exhausted, resentful, and my grades started slipping. I was writing 15 hours a week on top of classes, and I hated every second of it. Freelance writing had become a nightmare instead of an opportunity.
Then I hit a wall. I couldn't do it anymore. I actually cried when I saw another client email.
So I made changes. I raised my rates (which meant fewer clients but same income). I set clear boundaries (no responses after 7 PM). I started saying no to projects that didn't excite me. And you know what? The world didn't end. Clients actually respected me more.
Now freelance writing is enjoyable again. I have time for friends, for studying, for sleep. If you're feeling overwhelmed, please give yourself permission to pull back. You're a student first. The work will still be there when you're ready.
Anyone else struggle with boundaries in freelance writing? How do you protect your time?